So Glad They Told Me:

Women Get Real About Motherhood

will be released

by the editors of The HerStories Project.

In the increasingly competitive culture of modern motherhood, parenting advice can often be judgmental, unrealistic, or smug. Or sometimes, there isn’t anyone there to offer advice or support.

True support in motherhood can be hard to come by; some mothers may be isolated and lack a support network to provide honest advice, and others may face a barrage of unwarranted, unhelpful tips or warnings.

Motherhood advice isn’t always what it’s cracked up to be.

The culture of modern motherhood has become increasingly competitive, adversarial, and isolating. Mothers receive so-called advice that can be less about real support than it is judgment or “just you wait” (smug?) warnings. This collection of essays from 60 mothers will empower and unite parents with real, honest, advice from women who have been there. These writers share the advice or support they received– or wish they had– on everything from pregnancy to surviving the first year to parenting teens to empty nest syndrome. Inspired by the viral essay and #SoGladTheyToldMe social media movement, this book aims to change conversations about motherhood by presenting a broader, more realistic, and more balanced image of motherhood so that women will feel less inadequate, adversarial, and isolated. So Glad They Told Me is filled with compassionate, honest advice, and the poignant, painful, and sometimes hilarious truths you wish your best girlfriends had told you about motherhood.